August 04, 2013 | By: Vidyanath Aarvi


Har ek Friend Zaroori Hota Hai

A holy connection of Love and affection towards other people with whom we don't have any blood relation is friendship. This is what I mean.

A friend is a gift of life that we have for ourselves. Gift might be a surprise infact. A friend is someone with whom we feel comfortable and could easily share our thoughts and feelings. we do not have to think twice when we are with our friends. They are the persons we trust more after our parents.

The friendship of Lord Krishna and Kuchela is a great example of true friendship.

"A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you." - Elbert Hubbard

A true friend is one will always be there when you need someone. Difficult times are the best time to realize who your true friends are.

"Amicu certus in re incerta cernitur."- Quintus Ennius
(A sure friend is known when in difficulty- the above phrase says)

That is why it is said "A friend in need is a friend indeed".

It doesn't matter how many friends you have on facebook, google+, orkut, etc. what matters is how many true friends you have.

I don't say friends are life. But I say, life without friends is not worth living.

Generally, the kind of friends we have determines the kind of person we are. So, Be friends with someone who makes you feel free, positive and alive. I don't mind if you take this as a suggestion :)

In my perception, A couple should be best friends for a successful marriage. because, we know what kind of person we need. Wife and Husband should understand each other the way true friends understands each other. they should have love and understanding, trust and respect. Two sided please..

Once i noticed a statement from the novel "The Notebook" by Nicolas sparks - "You are my best friend as well as my lover, and I do not know which side of you I enjoy the most. I treasure each side, just as I have treasured our life together".

It's not achievement to make 100 friends an year. But, achievement is to make 1 friend for 100 years.

Unlike most people in this world, I don't get 20 text messages that are basically different varieties of extremely creative poetry such as "Roses are Red, Violets are blue, but friends like you, are very few!! happy friendship week my dear friend.. friends forever!! :-) :-) ;-) ;-)" to gently remind me of this week's specialty.

No, my friends don't send me such messages, not because we prefer the silent comfort of knowing that we're beyond such rhymes but because none of them are immature.
But friendship, you see, is beyond SMS.

Friendship, is Earning + Enjoyment.

Happy Friendship Day !